I was recently talking to a friend about relationships. We were talking about those that 'hunt' and those that are 'hunted'. Hunters and Huntees. Are you a hunter or a huntee? Do you chose or are you the chosen one? Why? Is that your natural preference? If you're not chosen, do you contort yourself into someone that you're not to be chosen?
It's easy to think that there's something wrong with you if you're not 'The Chosen One'. It's also easy to think that you don't have the ability to chose. But you always have a choice. And you don't have to wait on others to decide if you're worthy enough for them to pick you. As John Madden says, "YOU MAKE THE CALL!!" (I think that's a football reference). You chose because you can.
That's my two cents. What do you think?